Dream On: Align Your Lives and Dreams
Energetic Principle
Two people can live harmoniously in relationship when they share a vision. This vision involves their dreams for the future both together and individually. Key to the shared vision is a sense of freedom. Each allows the other the freedom to pursue his/her dreams. When this occurs, the couple’s lives become aligned. They head in the same direction and may support each other’s dreams for the good of the relationship.
A necklace of Charoite with Indigo, either alone or combined with White Quartz helps nourish dreams and visions. These gemstones vitalize the brow chakra, also known as the third eye, which sees beyond physical limitations to endless possibilities. In a healthy relationship, one’s personal vision encompasses that of the mate, even though they may be completely different.
Harmonious Dreams Make a Harmonious Relationship
Your dreams, visions, and ideas about what you want to do with your life, in work and leisure, originate deep within. Energetically, we say they come from the intuitive body, which is the aspect of yourself closest to your innermost Spiritual Self—that part of you that Knows.
When a couple’s dreams are in harmony, (and don’t conflict) it means they are resonating at a very deep level.
Having harmonious dreams does not mean they are the same. In fact, they may be quite different on the surface. One partner’s dream attainment does not cancel out or deny the other partner’s (so long as both take full responsibility for reaching for their dream, and do not expect the other to do it for them.) In fact, the vitality and inspiration that comes when one partner follows a dream can give life to the relationship. The other partner can enjoy that vitality, which may then inspire his or her own hopes and dreams.
When Dreams Hurt a Relationship
It can be a leap of faith and an exercise in trust to share your dreams with a partner. What if your dream is belittled or criticized? What if your partner won’t support your dream? What if your partner tells you that your dream is out of reach, so why bother? These are toxic thoughts and destructive to a relationship.
Dreams are life-giving both to individuals and to their relationships. If you fear a partner’s narrow mindedness or short-sightedness, keep quiet about your dreams, but work on the relationship. Often dreams get squashed by a partner when that partner feels his or her own dreams inadequate or unattainable.
The best thing you can do when a partner shares a dream is to listen without judgement. Listen with your whole heart and mind. Listen in the way you yourself want to be heard.
Few things hurt a relationship worse than when a partner denounces your dreams and visions. Who knows what the future may bring? Miracles abound. Ten years ago, did you really thing you’d be where you are now? Life is filled with surprises. So anything can happen, even the wildest of dreams.
Gemstone Therapy for Couples to Align Their Dreams
Dreams are born in the brow chakra, also called the third eye. A healthy brow chakra allows you to access your highest and best potential and draw a future for yourself where that potential is realized.
Charoite energy nourishes and vitalizes the brow chakra. Indigo nourishes and vitalizes the intuitive body. White Quartz can help these gemstone energies find areas where they are needed most. It’s an excellent symbiotic to use when you don’t have enough of the very rare Charoite to fill an entire necklace.
When worn, Charoite energy builds pathways through the body upon which intuitive awareness can travel. When an intuition comes in, it can travel these pathways to guide your body to respond to the nudge—without your mind getting in the way.
When a couple works with Charoite & Indigo, these pathways work for both. The couple develops energetic channels that unite them via the intuition each may receive. So, if one partner receives an inner nudge, the other partner might pick it up first. “Coincidences” such as this build closeness and help align your life with that of your partner’s.
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